Neighbourliness matters

Neighbourliness matters

Neighbours matter. They matter a lot. Most of us live in very big cities, and while I know we’re all part of a global village, increasingly an online one, we also live in a real village, our neighbourhood and its face-to-face relationships. Many of us are separated from those we love – family live in other places, friends move away – and our real neighbours, the people we live physically close to, may be the people we see most.

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Coaching and criticising - I wish I'd done Parenting 101

Coaching and criticising - I wish I'd done Parenting 101

So I started watching the tennis coach. I had to agree. He noticed everything every kid did, he knew what parts of the body had to move in any kind of play, and he was able to communicate this clearly and with humour and warmth and then give specific feedback. It’s not that he’s never positive, but he relates feedback to performance.

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